

re you someone who gets superb results with patients or clients but puts yourself on the back burner? In this profession, we often lose ourselves in the service of others. In addition, reprioritizing your needs is uncomfortable, awkward and, at best, can feel like a clunky effort. And so we think, let’s stay hidden, let’s put others out front.
A few things have to happen to break that cycle. First, you have to give yourself permission—because even if others give it to you, it’s not until you believe it for yourself, through yourself, that there is a shift.
Second, you have to be ready. And there’s no timeline for how long that might be—a month, a year, a good sleep—just start cultivating that internal infrastructure. What will it take? What might you lose? What might you gain? How do you function? Preparing for the lifelong marathon of managing and navigating your own health and well-being in an aging body and in a demanding profession is not easy.
Are you a one-day-at-a-time person? Think of people who choose to stay sober. They make that choice every single day, and even throughout the day. This journey is no different. There will be temptations that spark with certain triggers, and when your resilience is testing and your personal resources are depleted, you will be challenging your previous default.
Defaulting to fast food or being a couch potato when you are in a state of distress? Take time to ponder how you can reset that default. What logistics have to be in place for you to get off that couch and begin getting your body condition to improve, slowly but surely? What would need to happen in moments of worry for you to lift the dumbbells instead of the bag of chips? As we age (no matter your sex, but absolutely for the nearly 90% of women in this field), building strength to prevent injury and illness later on is paramount.
Let’s say you’ve got your nutrition and body condition plan in your mind’s eye—your vision—and even better if you have it written down on paper. Now it’s time to experiment. Add stuff in, take stuff out, do more of this, less of that. Keep leveling up. It’s not one thing, like most things in life, it’s a recipe. Consult professionals if and when it’s time.
